What Makes a Family?

What Makes a Family?

When I married Don Atwater, I gained a whole new family. His parents treated me like the daughter they never had. His mother’s two brothers and their wives in the Midwest welcomed me into their hearts and their homes, as did the offspring of these amazing adults—Don’s five first cousins. Other cousins from around the U.S. and Europe claimed me as one of their own. I felt loved and wanted and always will.

My father-in-law’s family in upstate New York also rolled out the welcome mat. Although we don’t see this side of the family often, we stay in touch with Don’s remaining aunt and first cousins.

Sometimes those we consider family are not the ones who gave us life or raised us, but those who chose to take us in when we were orphaned and alone. These people with big hearts and open minds define family. They’re loving, giving, kind, and caring. In the past few years we’ve shared births, illnesses, and deaths, and we support each other as best we can. If we differ on something, we discuss it as adults. Together we weather life’s joys and sorrows, and by being there for each other, we offer strength and love.

Return to Work

Return to Work

I awoke to a sunny Southern California morning, complete with a clear blue sky, a gentle breeze, and the promise of warmer weekend weather. This beautiful day brightens my outlook and energizes me, especially after having been off the past week with a nasty virus.

I’m ready to tackle my work space with its piles of things to do. While it may seem disorganized at first glance, it really is well ordered. One pile houses my writing, my joy and solace. Another contains work for The Spirit of Villarosa, a soon-to-be published book I coauthored. The other piles hold personal and business items: bills to pay, birthday greetings to send, homework for a class I missed, books to read, and checkbooks to balance. All require attention, and I must perform triage, just as they did at the hospital with me last week. And now, let the assessment begin.

Thanks to all my loyal followers for your good wishes. I’m back!

Biography or Memoir?

Biography or Memoir?

For nearly twenty years, I’ve had the privilege of helping others write their life stories by interviewing them and ghostwriting the stories they so freely shared. Many clients told family and friends they were writing their autobiographies; in other words their own life stories. (more…)